Till Death Do You Part

Blended families make planning issues harder and require sensitivity and skill to avoid what could be a life defining dispute.  How do you tell your new other that you love them, but do not want their kids to get any of your stuff when you pass?  How do you tell your new other that you also want to make sure that they have no control over the stuff you want to leave to "your family"?  These are tough questions that require professionalism and understanding by all the parties to make the estate plan work.