Wednesday, May 8, 2013

How to Divorce -- Counseling



COUNSELING

            Divorce and custody cases are often extremely emotional.  This is especially true when there has been infidelity or abuse in the relationship.  The divorce process is often about control, can be emotionally taxing, and often takes parties outside of their comfort zone.  For these reason, you should consider seeking counseling before or during the legal process.
           
            Finding the right counselor is always the tough part.  Obviously, you will first need to consult with your insurance company to find out if such counseling is covered and if there are any preferred providers.  If you do not know where to begin, your attorney can often recommend qualified counselors.  Your social or religious contacts also might provide leads. 
           
            When you choose a counselor, be picky.  Therapists have different styles and approaches.  Inform the counselor at the first meeting about the goal of the session.  Also check your health insurance policy to see if your plan covers any part of the cost.  You also need to make sure that the therapist is willing to testify if mental health becomes an issue in the case.  However, you should not approach counseling simply as litigation strategy or be concerned about what your counselor will say in court.  As a general rule communications between a counselor and patient for therapeutic reasons are considered privileged and not admissible as evidence. 
           
            Counseling often can help you through this difficult time.  If you have children, in Utah you are required to attend a class called Divorce Orientation Courts for Parents as soon as possible after the Petition for Divorce has been filed and prior to finalizing your divorce.  Failure to attend can lead to a charge of contempt and a hefty fine.  For information about this class, please call (801) 578-3800 or visit http://www.utcourts.gov/specproj/dived.htm.

            For further questions, call Attorney Drew at (801) 871-2240 or visit www.attorneydrew.com.

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